Reflections

Dear friends,

Thank you for your kind and supportive messages following my last post. I am much improved since last writing. Friendships and family and a few adjustments to life have all helped. And as always medications play their part.

This post I thought I’d capture some brief moments from the year.

Light House at Warea, Taranaki, Aotearoa New Zealand.

Early this year we went as a family to New Plymouth, Taranaki where we had very precious time with family and friends. I find a visit to a lighthouse good for my soul. This was a trip we will always treasure. We have had the sad passing of family and friends this year. I am so grateful for how we have been blessed by their presence in our lives.

Almost the entire year we have had major road works. For weeks, day and night underground water was pumped down our street gutters. The volume of water found by contractors exceeded their expectations and sparked my imagination – this water, living water rushing beneath our streets.

The end result including traffic lights is a huge improvement particularly for cyclists and pedestrians going to school and home safely. Our local dairy had an armed robbery in recent weeks. This has been very concerning as our city has had more crimes like this.

This spring I found my one first peonie rose flower. I planted it about 8 years ago near a basketball hoop and surprise it got trampled! I had thought it was dead. It will definitely find a new home. In this last term I started going to a beginners watercolour painting course. It has been helpful for me to pick up an interest, meet new people and gain artistic skills. We have a fantastic teacher. I’m in for next year.

Jono and I

This month Jono and I have been married 20 years! What a lot has happened in that time. Two babies – now teens, me becoming unwell and becoming well again. We have grown as a couple. It hasn’t always been easy. I think we are very good for each other having accomplished what we have because of being a team with complimentary approaches. I look forward to how we continue to grow together in the coming years and see what God wants to do as we love and serve others.

Conical Hill, Hanmer Springs

Thank you for tracking with me over these past months. I so appreciate the encouraging words given. It has been nice to see there have been readers from overseas. I hope you find encouragements within my posts and do follow my blog if you don’t already.

I pray that you will be blessed this Christmas season and know the freshness of hope found in the person of Jesus Christ. He is our guide, anchor and our light through what can be low lit or worrisome days. If you haven’t read the Bible before, can I encourage you to get a free Bible app (You Version is fabulous) and watch a short daily video or start reading the book of John. Hear the words of Jesus. Even if it’s just for 3 mins a day. Reading the Bible with an open heart has allowed God to transform my life and continue to. Give yourself a gift for your soul this holiday season. God can strengthen your soul as you draw on the love he has for you.

The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. – John 1:14

That’s a wonder-filled Christmas thought to finish on!

Mere Kirihimete, Merry Christmas,

Bronnie

A Restored Man

by Bronnie Tressler

Hello friends,

It’s wonderful that spring is here! More daylight hours really lifts the soul.

When I was younger I avoided reading a particular story about Jesus, but in recent years it has become a significant marker in my spiritual and mental health journey.

This podcast episode I retell this story that has changed my life. It is about a wild man who Jesus heals and restores in a holistic way. It is a confronting miracle that touches every part of this man’s life. He makes a journey from being out of his mind, homeless, and tormented – to being restored, heading back to his home and family. He is a new man, saved and healed by Jesus. This man is given a life mission that equals the greatness of his healing. I believe this powerful transformation offers hope for Jesus’ compassion and healing work in our lives. I also share from my own holistic mental health journey.

I love hearing from listeners so please do drop me a line if you enjoyed listening or if you are interested in finding out more about Jesus.

My email address is  bronnie@revivinghope.life

Arohanui,

Bronnie

“Return to your home and declare who much God has done for you”. So he went away, proclaiming throughout the city how much Jesus had done.

Luke 8:39

Mothers with Young

Kia Ora friend,

We are almost halfway through winter in Aotearoa, New Zealand. It’s nice the days are beginning to get longer.

Last week I shared some of my story with a group of mothers with babies. Preparing for this I reflected on what helped me during this season of my life. I thought I’d share some of it with you.

 When the boys were two and seven months old we had a tragic loss (for more on this listen to episode one of the Reviving Hope podcast). This set off a bipolar episode for me. I was in hospital with our baby for some months. I had medications and an holistic approach to rehabilitation. I returned home from hospital severely depressed, anxious and with OCD thinking. Despite this I had to do all the things a mother needs to do. Getting out of bed in the morning was incredibly difficult.  

We had phenomenal support from family, friends, neighbours, church whānau, and mental health services. God restored me as I mothered, as I did those every day necessary activities, the routines, and structures that organised me. I was getting up at a regular time, walking to kindy, talking with other mothers, making meals, doing the laundry, gathering with church and doing everything else. The activities of daily life were therapeutic for me. I knew these principals from my previous work as an occupational therapist but had to put them into practice. I enrolled in my local Bible College. While studying it gave me a mental break from my anxiety as I had other positive things to think about. God used all these things to help me get well.

I thought I’d share some thoughts and reflections on my spiritual life when mothering.

Pray above the noise

When the kids were young I met with a couple of Christian friends who would catch up and pray together. My friend Ruth was great at seizing the moment, making opportunity to pray together near the end of a visit, but before the kids got too spent. She would pray above the noise and we would stop when we were drowned out by the kids, and then go home. No matter how short a time we prayed I always felt ministered to.

If you don’t have good supports, I encourage you to ask Father God to bring people to you, and guide you to places you can meet and pray with others. Many churches provide groups for mothers with young ones and small groups. As an old friend of mine used to say, ‘God gives us the people for our lives’. Sometimes we also need to seek them out.

Guidance in vulnerability

He tends his flock like a shepherd:
He gathers the lambs in his arms
And holds them close to his heart;
He gently guides those who have young.

– Isaiah 40:11 (NIV)

God has ministered to me greatly through these words. As I think on them, I feel Jesus caring for my young and caring for me. I particularly like the truth that God guides us gently. He guides us gently because he knows we are often vulnerable. I have been fragile. God guides with care.

I have found my Father has gently guided me so often through the wisdom of my mother who lives away, and my friend Bron Tait. Generally speaking we have not gone this way before with parenting challenges. It is all new. I believe we need wise women who have come through our season of life and can help guide us. Ask God for such a woman if you are lacking in this area of your life.

Drip feeding on the Word

When mothering our young I think it is good to offload expectations of how we connect with God. The very acts of mothering invite us to commune with him – feeling the Father’s love for us and our children as we hold or care for them. This said, there are times when it may be hard to connect with God’s love wherever we seek it. When I was severely depressed in hospital I read almost everything in the Bible through a negative lens – about me failing God. In response I took three lines of scripture to meditate on (Lamentations 3:21-23) and let others minister to me for some months until I was well enough to interact with it again.

There are many ways to connect with God in prayer and Scripture. In times of less sleep from caring for a baby or general busyness, I have often taken a snacking approach to feeding my soul. In these times I may write out a scripture, just one verse and put it on a note, leaving it around the house, to look at it amidst the day. Sometimes rest is the most important thing to do with down time. Resting with the Word close by to think on can be a good way to drift into a nap. I’ve found Bible phone apps such as Lectio 365 also refreshing. As I write this I see a blackbird out the window pecking the dirt beneath the fruit trees in the quest for grub. We also can peck away and be fed in whatever way suits us best.

That’s all for this post. If you haven’t already, do have a listen to Roly McConnell talk about alcohol and drug addictions on the latest episode of the Reviving Hope podcast.

Have a good rest of your week, perhaps a winter holiday,

Blessings,

Bronnie Tressler

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Renew Your Mind – with Phil Tait

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Kia Ora friend,

In the latest Reviving Hope podcast episode Phil Tait talks with me about a powerful practice for renewing our minds, and strengthening our souls.

This conversation is about the benefits of meditating on and memorising Scripture. You will hear it is an activity that changed Phil’s mental health and caused him to thrive in life.

Over many years Phil has ministered in different denominations in New Zealand. Phil is married to Bron who also appears on the podcast (see episode two for Bron Tait’s Story). Most recently Phil and Bron are ministering in Vineyard churches in Christchurch and around New Zealand. They also minister in a church in Melbourne Australia.

Renew Your Mind – Ideas for Learning Scripture

Learning scripture in small steps has also helped me in my mental health and wellbeing.

Meditating on and learning Scripture is powerful but is worth noting that it is just one way of renewing our minds and strengthening our relationship with God.

‘I get into this because I enjoy it…It’s a discipline too but I’ve seen the effects on my life

Phil Tait

My mind needs regular exercise. I notice that in the times I am learning Scripture, I know more inner strength and stability in my emotions.

For reference, the Bible, the Word, and Scripture are all referring to the same thing.

Why meditate on and memorise Scripture if you are struggling emotionally?

  • God’s Word is alive and active (Hebrews 4:12). God can renew our minds and strengthen our inner being. We get saved in a moment but need to participate in the process of renewing our minds.
  • If we are thinking on God’s truths we can give our minds a rest from unhelpful thoughts. This activity of learning Scripture is helping train our brain what to think on. Learning something new is also a good activity for our brains.

Some ideas for meditating on Scripture

  • Ask God to help you with what you are learning and to believe it for yourself.
  • Speak, declare, proclaim your scripture to yourself. As Phil says ‘I preach to my soul’. It can feel weird to do, but the spoken word is powerful. Proclaiming Scripture and praying in the Spirit can go well together.
  • Consider walking or doing something else while meditating -doubling up two good activities. I go to the park, use my phone with my Bible app, put my ear buds in and walk while speaking and thinking on what I’m learning.  
  • Encourage yourself for whatever you do. Be pleased for the day of small beginnings. A verse a week can be an achievable way to get into this.

‘You often feel you’ve never done enough. Whatever you give to the LORD in prayer is wonderful-  that you’re actually doing it’

Phil Tait

Some Scriptures on God’s Love for You

  • There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear. 1 John 4:18 (NIV).
  • God is love. Whoever lives in love, lives in God, and God in them. 1 John 4:16 (NIV)
  • For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. (Jesus’ words). John 3:16 (NIV)
  • The earth, O LORD is full of your steadfast love. Psalm 119:64 (NRSV)
  • But this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases, his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. Lamentations 3:21-23 (NRSV)
  • He tends his flock like a shepherd; he gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young. Isaiah 40:11 (NIV)
  • For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38,39 (NIV)
  • As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you. Isaiah 66:13 (NRSV)
  • And I pray that you being rooted and established in love, may have power together with all the Lord’s holy people to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ and to know that love that surpasses knowledge. Ephesians 3:17-19 (NIV)

Other Scriptures

  • Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Romans 12:2 (NIV)
  • Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:1 (NIV)
  • Do not fear, for I am with you. Do not be afraid, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you. Isaiah 41:10 (NRSV)
  • The YouVersion Bible app has a tab in the top of the Bible reading screen where you can change the version to compare translations. They also have search options for different themes you may want verses on.

If you’ve found this podcast episode helpful do subscribe to the podcast and consider sharing it with a friend. It’s on Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.

Warm regards,

Bronnie Tressler

bronnie@revivinghope.life